May 08, 2003

The Ol' Referrer Log

I haven't done this in awhile. But it's always interesting to check how people got to this web page from search engines. Let me tell you...there is a lot of interest in Jenna Jamison and porn in general. A lot. But here are some of the more interesting search terms.
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pictures of porn stars taking shits
nude photos of Donnie Wahlberg
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nude Ricky Davis photos
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pictures of Bacon Cheeseburger
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Aahhh...our friends and neighbors and their habits. All of this only in the last month.

May 07, 2003

Fun With Verizon

So as I noted earlier, I decided to get Verizon DSL. Well when they were installing it they decided to knock out my phone line for the last...oh continuing on 24 hours right now. I've called them about three times now on my cell phone or at work and besides getting put on hold for 20-30 minutes one time by one representative who needed to talk to his "mentor", I chatted with one gentleman who wanted to know if the DSL line I was calling about was 917-XXX-XXXX...or what is universally known in NYC as a cell phone number. The second person I talked to said, can we reach you at 718-XXX-XXXX to which I replied (after already telling him I had a problem with my phone) "You could if I had a dial tone."

So now I have to possibly wait until 6pm tomorrow by which I have not had phone service for two days while they try to set up DSL. This inspires me to tell them about my other girlfriend called Sprint which keeps bugging me to let them take over my local service.

May 06, 2003

Weddings

This past weekend I went to a wedding of one of my best friends. He became a born-again Christian late in college. Before that he was Greek Orthodox. Anyway, it was a nice wedding, I guess. I don't think I've ever been to a wedding that I've "liked." From an objective point of view then, it was a nice wedding...meaning other people seemed to really like it.

My own hatred of weddings really discourages me from engaging in one of my own. A traditional wedding seems to encapsulate a good segment of things I hate. Like:

1. Really Really Bad Music.

For example, hits such as "Sweet Caroline," "Paradise By The Dashboard (Confessional) Light," "Y.M.C.A.," "Celebration," "Brown-Eyed Girl," (granted a good song ruined by being overplayed), etc...etc. There were a few curveballs at this one such as Eminem's "Without Me." Although I had yet to get over the fact that I had seen a bunch of conservative Christians getting down to a song about whether or not a teenage couple was going to have pre-marital sex in a car ("Paradise..."), it really made me howl to see them getting down to the line "Chris Kirkpatrick you can get your ass kicked." There was also a back to back block of Young M.C.'s "Bust A Move," and Tone Loc's "Funky Cold Medina." The latter of which was jokingly predicted by yours truly after hearing "Bust A Move." This was all after the DJ promised us some hits from the 90s. I laughed and said...what's next, Funky Cold Medina? Oooohhh...

I already have a bunch of "hits" selected in my mind for my wedding including...

"Fell In Love With A Girl"--The White Stripes
"White Wedding"--Billy Idol
"Seventeen"--Winger
"You Remind Me of Something"--R. Kelly
"Love Bites"--Def Leppard
"Girls Girls Girls"--Motley Crue
"Fuck The Pain Away"--Peaches

2. The Gender Line

Truth be told, my second best friend besides Field Mouse is probably a female as well. However, I can't have her be my "best man" obviously. Well, not only that though but then if Field Mouse and I were to get married, she would have to stick my friend on her list of bridesmaids. And if there was some guy that was a friend of hers then I would have to stick him on my side. Well, that's asinine. I have at least two good female friends that I wouldn't want stuck on her side. I mean they're my friends....

3. The Money

I'm not too excited about shelling out thousands of dollars for a "gem" with an insanely high price artificially created by a fucking cartel with bloody hands. Fuck diamonds. I wouldn't want to marry anybody that placed a lot of emphasis on a ring. Sorry, ladies, I think that shows a tad bit of a self-esteem problem if you want to show off some big-ass shiny rock so you can make all your girlfriends jealous. Just think of how many Botox treatments you could get instead. So that leaves us with some other form of a ring which I'm all for. I just haven't seen anything that I think seems culturally or aesthetically interesting. So I'm kind of stuck on what to do to replace diamonds. Maybe DeBeers has won.

Then there's how much the wedding actually costs. There is no way in hell I am inviting anybody that I haven't spoken to in over a year. That officially disinvites all extended family. I think it works out for both of us. You don't have to buy us a gift (well, I'll get to that later anyway) and we don't have to awkwardly tell you how happy we are that you showed up.

4. The Wedding Registry

I am entirely and fervently against Wedding Registries. I think they're tremendously tacky. Buy me X items of this. Gross. Doesn't anyone else think this is tacky? Why is this only allowed for weddings? I have actually seen this registry thing catch on for other gift occasions such as birthdays and Christmas. They just change the name of it to a "Wish List." I can understand why people have them. I've heard the arguments...multiple toasters, China sets...voluminous repetitive crap.

Here's the deal...I don't really want presents. Yes, I must be an official member of the United States Society of Misanthropes. I would rather people just came and had a good time or decide to give some money to charity or something. I really don't need a state of the art cooking set or a really nice duvet cover. I'm a bit more humble than that...and trust me, it's not that I don't enjoy nice things. I just don't feel the need to request them.

5. Religion

As time goes on, I have gotten less and less religious. I suppose at this point that I would be termed an agnostic. I entertain the possibility of a deity and I leave it at that. I was raised Catholic. So was Field Mouse. Field Mouse is still Catholic. Although we both tend to disagree with the Church on a lot of issues, she has remained faithful, while I have not. So I would prefer not to have a religious wedding. I don't want to go through spritual counseling before marriage where I am asked questions regarding my feelings about God or whether I would raise my children Catholic...blah blah blah. I enter into religious discussions as a skeptic. I don't think by the end of our sessions that I would get the ol' blessing from Father Sweeney to get the blessed sacrament of marriage. So what the hell do I do about that?

6. Family Pressure

Since I am such a traditionalist, haha, there is going to be tremendous pressure from family members to do things "right." There will be tremendous anger if I don't. Threats of absences from the wedding, blah blah blah. To be honest I would most likely say "well, maybe we'll have a tape made and you can watch it later." I'm pretty stubborn about a lot of this. I really don't want to hate my own wedding. That's sick.

So what would I like?

A bunch of friends and family go up to Vermont. We rent a big property on some nice land. We have a big-ass barbecue with volleyball and other activities going on and a nice outside ceremony. So it turns into a weekend event of relaxing and having fun. A good time without formality and horrible tradition that continues only because people are so lazy to think for themselves. No smushing cake into people's faces...definitely no kissing from clinking of glasses...no first dance...no hiearchical bullshit seating. Just regular people getting together to celebrate.

May 05, 2003

Thinkthink

Field Mouse and I are having a housewarming party this weekend. I created an interesting and witty invite to all using Evite. Almost everybody has viewed the invite already but only about two or three people have responded in any form.

What's up with that? I hate that shit. Either put down that you're coming or not so I can be saved from complete embarrassment if only like...three people show up. At least you don't have beer for 30 and you keep telling people..."Yeah...I mean I'm pretty sure other people are coming...ummm(check watch)...anytime now..."

Tomorrow I should have DSL. Oh, the places I will go.

I was going to try to make this into a more interesting entry...but I'm lacking inspiration.